The Kindness Butterfly Effect
When you see someone alone at a networking event or meeting, approach him, and introduce yourself. After a short conversation, invite him to join you in meeting others. Together go find a new group and then introduce both of you to the new group. Your new friend will be forever grateful. Defend the person being interrupted in a meeting. Say something like “It sounds like Tiffany was making a good point, I’d appreciate hearing where she was going with her comment.”Call people by name. Using someone’s name makes them feel recognized. In a restaurant, try using the name of your server. The positive impact can be immediate. Then tip an extra dollar for the great service.
Give an honest compliment like “Your presentation was phenomenal. I learned a lot” or “It is such a pleasure to see you today” or “You always light up a room when you enter”.